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Preparedness checklist

Divorce

Going through a divorce requires careful financial preparation. These 20 steps will help you feel more in control of your financial future as you navigate the process.

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Gather information & assess

  • Gather Financial Records

    Collect documents like bank statements, tax returns, pay stubs, retirement account details, investment records, mortgage statements, and insurance policies.

  • Assess Assets and Liabilities

    Create a comprehensive list of all assets (e.g., property, savings, retirement accounts) and debts (e.g., loans, credit card balances).

  • Understand Marital vs. Separate Property

    Identify which assets and debts are marital (to be divided) and which are separate (belonging to one party).

  • Evaluate Income and Expenses

    Document both spouses' income and track current and anticipated post-divorce expenses to understand your financial picture.

  • Build a Budget

    Develop a post-divorce budget to account for changes in living expenses, childcare, and potential alimony or child support.

  • Know the Value of Shared Assets

    Obtain appraisals for valuable assets like homes, vehicles, or collectibles to ensure equitable distribution.

  • Check Credit Reports

    Review your credit report to understand your current standing and address any errors.

Separate & protect your finances

  • Separate Joint Accounts

    Consider closing or separating joint bank and credit accounts to prevent unauthorized withdrawals or charges.

  • Open Individual Accounts

    Establish individual checking, savings, and credit accounts in your name if you don't already have them.

  • Review Retirement Accounts

    Understand how retirement accounts and pensions may be divided; a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) might be necessary.

  • Plan for Tax Implications

    Consult a tax advisor about how divorce could affect your filing status, deductions, and capital gains on asset sales.

  • Revisit Beneficiaries

    Update beneficiaries on life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and wills if permitted by the divorce agreement.

  • Consider Health Insurance

    Plan for health insurance coverage post-divorce, especially if one spouse was on the other's employer-sponsored plan.

  • Understand Alimony and Child Support

    Familiarize yourself with potential obligations or entitlements and how they will impact your finances.

  • Consult a Financial Advisor

    Work with a professional to strategize about investments, savings, and long-term goals during and after the divorce.

Move forward

  • Update Legal Documents

    Revise your will, power of attorney, and estate plan to reflect your new financial and personal situation.

  • Plan for Housing Changes

    Decide whether to sell the marital home, buy out your spouse, or rent, considering affordability and stability.

  • Protect Your Credit

    Monitor joint liabilities like credit cards and loans to ensure they are paid during the divorce process.

  • Secure an Emergency Fund

    Build or increase your emergency savings to prepare for unexpected expenses during and after the divorce.

  • Seek Professional Guidance

    Consult with a divorce attorney and, if necessary, a mediator or counselor to navigate legal, financial, and emotional challenges effectively.

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